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2022.01.17 07:51 kallosz Spytali pracowników KAS czy przepisy Polskiego Ładu są jasne
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2022.01.17 07:51 Prof_Bean if a hentai artist jacks off to their own art, are they jacking off to themselves?
2022.01.17 07:51 Red_bug91 Season 16 in Australia
Does anyone know where I can watch the new episodes of season 16 in Australia? I’ve managed to get up to episode 7 or 8. I’ve got almost all the streaming services & I’ve tried using a VPN for Discovery+, but it doesn’t allow my credit card details.
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2022.01.17 07:51 Antique_Peak7715 🥰
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2022.01.17 07:51 Talrigvil Gdje u ZG izvaditi umnjak??
Imam prilicno jaku bol u umnjaku i vrijeme je da ga vadim. Pred koji mjesec to je bila i preporuka zubara kad sam na moru bio. Pijem klavocin koji dan i stvarno zelim izbiti ovaj zub.
Idealno privatnik jer ovdje nemam svog zubara, idealno jeftin i dobar (znam znam...). I ako radi iza 17h, da to danas rijesim.
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2022.01.17 07:51 myeggsarebig An Open Letter to Woman Considering AA.
If you’re new to the “rooms” you are likely experiencing a lot of pain right now. You are confused. You are scared. You are not sure if you can live life without your substance of choice. Your skin feels like its crawling. Everyone at the meeting is inundating you with their brand of recovery: “do you have a sponsor; just don’t drink; one day at a time; keep coming back; it works if you work it...” They are all well meaning, and they genuinely believe in what they are telling you. You will feel like you are surrounded by love and support.
You’ll feel safe when you hear the rules of that meeting: “we suggest men support men and women support women.” Then when you go to leave, men WILL follow you to your car to “innocently” to talk to you about the program.
Despite the rules, no one will do anything to stop it when it happens. If you ask for support, they will tell you “principles over personality.” In other words, AA’s reputation comes before your need for safety. If you write a letter to AA’s World Service Organization, they will tell you that all meetings are self-governing, and that issue needs to be taken up at that meeting’s business meeting . You then plead for support at the business meeting. Not one man will step up and say: yes, we will assure you that this room is safe, and we will tell ALL MEN WHO HARASS WOMEN NOT TO RETURN. Instead, you will be told to go to a women’s meeting, so rapey men can continue to harass, rape, and murder women with impunity at co-ed meetings.
I spent 5 WHOLE years in the program. I did what I was told. Eventually, I would become one of the reputable female leaders of my home group. At 1.5 years sober my Mom died, while I was in the middle of a divorce, moving out of my married house, and sending my oldest of to college. I was considered a rock star to do all of that, without picking up a drink. AA earned the credit. Not me. According to AA, I am powerless, and if I didn’t have G-d on my side, I would have drank and eventually died with my mother. I believed it. I preached it.
But, also, deep down inside, my intuition (that I was told to ignore because it’s just my addiction trying to kill me) was telling me to find support somewhere else.
6 months after my Mom died, I had an argument with someone I believed was a friend. She had been continuing to use AA directives to attempt to make me feel better about my grief. I made it very clear on numerous occasions that being told to: make a gratitude list, help others, and that my grief was self centered fear, was not helpful. I kindly shared what she could do instead - just hold space for me - that is all - just listen. Instead, mid-argument, when I was completely out of steam from begging my friends to telling me how to grieve, I screamed at the top of my lungs: MY FUCKING MOM DIED!!!!!!!!! The friend’s response: SO FUCKING WHAT. WE ARE SO TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT YOUR MOM AND YOU USUNG HER DEATH TO MISBEHAVE. This was only 6 months after her death, a few days before my first birthday without my Mom.
Even in the rawest most vulnerable moment in my life, I was not granted empathy. AA seems to only reserve that for people you should forgive, like rapist.
I was 2 years sober at that time. I didn’t know what I’d do without AA? 2 years in, and, as you can read, I was getting hurt more than I was getting helped - there was enough bullshit that could plausibly give me permission to walk away. I stayed for 3 more years, lest I wanted to drink and die.
In that time, I supported at least 50 or more women with their early recovery. I profoundly value the time I spent with all the women I walked with. All of them shared raw, intimate, details of their painful childhoods, adolescents, and adulthood - these deeply vulnerable truths were shared with me, in trust of me. I will never forget every tear I watched fall down a recovering woman’s cheek. I could never bring myself to direct them to handle their trauma as directed by AA.
I am a trauma survivor. I am the person who was told (as directed in the literature) to apologize to a man who witnessed (and harassed me about it the day after it happened) my rape, for the resentment I had against him (because I ignored him when I saw him working at a diner I frequented).
“Why did you ignore that bus person when he said “good morning?”
“Because he witnessed my rape, and told me all the details when I woke up covered in blood, in a mocking manner, that I wanted it.
“Oh, that sounds like a resentment to me; you need pray for him, apologize for being rude, and work on forgiveness because he is obviously a very sick man.”
This is AA direction. You are born an alcoholic, and alcoholics are inherently selfish, self-centered, and self-seeking, even when they are victims. Everything I did that didn’t measure up to AAs criteria for a spiritual awakening was summed up as ‘your alcoholism’, and ‘your innate fuckedupness,’ and that I have to do better to work on forgiveness and “letting go, and letting G-d.”
My final straw was a couple of years after a dear AA friend of mine was brutally attacked by her ex-boyfriend, while sleeping (he was 10 years sober). He would have killed her if a neighbor didn’t hear her screams. He spent 2 years in prison. When he was released, he was accepted back into the AA community with open arms. I had to listen to him cry about how terribly he regretted his behaviors, as if it was akin to stealing his mama’s purse. She killed herself shortly after he was released. Rumors about what she could have done differently to avoid being tortured, ran their course.
In this moment, I tried to imagine telling her to write down a list of all the resentments she had, directing her to outline her part in the resentment (was she selfish, self centered, self seeking, or dishonest), followed up by her apologizing to all of those she resented? How about making her outline a sex inventory as well, where all of her sexual behaviors are weighed in columns of shame. I couldn’t imagine it, because it is unethical, and no reasonable person with a even mild moral fiber would make such absurd suggestions. She died because of AA’s irresponsibility, and unwillingness to address the violent misogyny that is rampant in AA.
The light went on and I couldn’t turn it off, no matter what threats AA was proposing about my future without AA. I was not born alcoholic. I did not need to shame my behaviors. I did not need to blame myself for my rape because of my drinking. I was not powerless. I did not have to listen to men tell their stories, which included them bragging about all the women they abused, under the guise of humility. I did not have to pray for or forgive my rapist, nor excuse their behaviors because they’re “just sick”. I did not need to turn my life over to a male-run organization. I did not need to serve another alcoholic to process my mother’s shocking death. I did not need to walk miles in the snow to get to a meeting, when I should have been home making snow angels with my kids. And I certainly did not need get better at accepting men harassing newcomer women.
I did not need to do any of these things to stay sober. Neither do you. You have choices, and you are not going to drink and die, if you don’t use AA. I’ve been sober for more years out of AA, than in. You can too.
I have a feeling that comments to this post will be met with, “but it works for me” and “take what you need, and leave the rest” and “that’s not how I sponsor women or how women sponsor me”. Not only have I heard it all, Ive said it all. AA was my lifeline and no one could convince me otherwise, despite my own suspicions, I’d double down to protect AA.
Please don’t “not all men” “not all meetings” me.
I’m not here to tell anyone how to recover. If AA works for you, that makes me very happy. I celebrate all recovery, regardless of the route of administration.
But this is FDS, and we are here to support maximizing female benefit, and I owe it to my sisters to warn them of the dangers of being a woman in male spaces, from my own experience.
If you are struggling to find a safe space to be sober, please feel free to outreach me via dm.
All the best.
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2022.01.17 07:51 Kdog122025 Kuminga was a team low -30 against the T Wolves; but how much of that was actually his fault?
When I watched Kuminga tonight it felt like he didn’t have a particularly bad game. Not just for him, but for any player out there. He definitely made some dumb rookie mistakes but it didn’t feel like he was this massive albatross out there. Wiggins, D Lee, and Bjeli all seemed to play worse than him. Was it just a lineup issue or was I just watching with rose colored glasses?
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2022.01.17 07:51 shadowgamer22 u know id probably accept pokemon criticism if people wernt dicks about it
im all for being critical of pokemon but as soon as u mock and shame me for expressing interest in the games thats when you have lost all hope of me listening to your opinions
you can criticise a game without being a jerk about it it isnt hard to do
and yeah i am intregued about legends arceus get over yourselves
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